What parents need to know if they suspect their child
or teen
is a victim of cyberbullying.
Cyberbullying affects about
half of all American children.
What is Cyberbullying:
Cyberbullying is bullying
(threatening them or harassing
them, any action made with the intent to hurt or belittle a child)
using
technology; like posting an embarrassing photo without the person’s
knowledge,
or making a comment over the internet on Facebook, or sending a
threatening or
insulting instant
message to the
victim’s cell phone. Regardless if the post is a lie or truth it
doesn’t
matter, as long as the action will hurt or harass the victim. Sometimes
the
post is an embarrassing photo displayed without the teen’s consent.
In the past, there was hope of
avoiding the bully; today, cyberbullying
can happen at any time, a text message can be sent day or night, when
the
victim least expects it, and the cyberbully can post a comment on
internet
sites like Facebook that could be seen by literally hundreds of people
within a
matter of minutes. There is no easy way the victim can escape the
intended
harassment and cruelty of cyberbullying.
Cyberbullying has been linked
to teen suicide – it has to
stop.
Teen monitoring software for a
teen’s computer or smartphone
can help prevent, stop or at the very least provide evidence of
Cyberbullying.
Here’s how: Computer monitoring software will capture all computer and
internet
activity; computer screenshots, which includes all internet websites
visited,
both sides of internet chats, any emails received or sent. The teen
monitoring
software is like having a surveillance camera aimed directly at the
computer’s
monitor, you will see everything your teen sees. Also, the monitoring
results
can be printed or saved as proof of any cyberbullying actions.
Monitoring
software is always recording, around the clock; 24/7.
Teen monitoring software for
smartphones can be installed
directly onto your teen’s cell phone, the monitoring software captures
all text
messages and parents can view, download or print the actual text
messages and
date and time they were received.
Recommendations for parents who
suspect their child or teen is
a victim of cyberbullying.
Safe Haven - Make sure your
teen feels safe and IS safe, to
the best of your ability.
No response – this is very
hard, but important: Do NOT
respond in anyway, just like with a stalker, any response is seen as
encouragement by the person or group behind the cyberbullying.
Evidence – Unfortunately
parents need to retain the hurtful
evidence, first instincts are to delete or wipe out the hurtful words,
but evidence
of each cyberbullying offense is needed and important. Teen monitoring
software
for the computer or smartphone is recommended as it can capture
evidence of the
cyberbullying to be printed or saved.
Identify – Try to determine who
is behind the cyberbullying.
It could be one person or a group of people. Rely on facts ONLY; it’s
not
always the person or group you think it is!
Do what you can to block or
stop the cyberbullying actions –
Of course any parent would stop the cyberbullying if they could; but
consider
parental control type software or monitoring software for the teen’s
phone or
computer, as this can prevent the data from ever being received.
Sometimes the
cyberbully may be violating a EULA (End User Legal Agreement) or Terms
and
Conditions of their ISP (Internet Service Provider), Facebook, internet
chats
or email services used. For instance, abuse can be reported on Facebook
and the
service may be able to block or terminate the violator and their
actions.
Expert Advice or Reinforcements
– Depending on the severity
of the cyberbullying and the offense, parents may need to seek the
advice of a
lawyer or local law enforcement.
Also, the cyberbullying may be
considered criminal if the
following is displayed:
-
Threats
of physical harm or violence
-
Sexually
explicit or obscene words or photos
-
Severe
harassment and/or stalking the victim.
Install
teen
monitoring software today to prevent and stop cyberbullying!
For more
information on monitoring your child’s internet and computer
activities visit www.TeenMonitoring.com
by: Kelly Thomas
Kelly
Thomas is an entrepreneur and author for
numerous monitoring software websites like www.teenmonitoring.com and www.parents-anonymous.com. This article
may be freely reprinted or distributed
in its entirety in any ezine, newsletter, blog or website. The author’s
name
and website links must remain intact and be included with every
reproduction.
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